Spreader Bars

Spreader Bars

A spreader bar is a rigid bar with a cuff at each end that holds the wrists or ankles apart during bondage play. Our bondage spreaders include adjustable bars, leg spreaders with thigh straps, wrist-to-neck bars and double bars, in padded PU leather, lace and metal. Every order ships discreetly Australia-wide.

How do you choose a spreader bar?

  • Length: a 50 to 60 cm bar suits most bodies for ankle or wrist play. Adjustable bars let you change the stretch.
  • Cuffs: padded, adjustable cuffs are the most comfortable for beginners. Buckles hold firmly, while Velcro releases faster.
  • Bar: metal poles are sturdy and easy to wipe clean. Some bars come apart for storage.
  • Type: ankle bars open the legs, wrist bars keep the hands apart, and thigh-strap spreaders combine both.
  • Budget: most of our spreader bars cost about $35 to $95, with premium bolsters costing more.

What does our tester recommend?

Kim, one of our product testers, chose the Adora Ankle and Wrist Bar Spreader Bondage Restraint - Black as her top pick. It has adjustable, soft and good-quality PU leather cuffs, and the 55 cm metal pole is a great length, not too short. She says it's great for fun, safe fantasy play. It also comes in red.

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Adora Leg Spreader Leather Bondage Restraint

Adora Leg Spreader Thigh Straps Bondage RestraintMake your wildest bedroom fantasies come true,..

$39.99 Ex Tax: $39.99

Adora Ankle and Wrist Bar Spreader Bondage Restraint - Black

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$52.99 Ex Tax: $52.99

Adora Ankle and Wrist Bar Spreader Bondage Restraint - Red

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$52.99 Ex Tax: $52.99

Adora Neck Wrist Spreader Bar

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$49.99 Ex Tax: $49.99

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$198.76 Ex Tax: $198.76

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Scandal Bondage Bar

Scandal Bondage Bar Soft and strong red brocade fabic holds wrists firmly in place between restrain..

$96.95 Ex Tax: $96.95

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Liberator Talea Spreader Bar Bolster Claret

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$314.99 Ex Tax: $314.99

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Scandal Spreader Bar

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$149.99 Ex Tax: $149.99

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Fetish Fantasy Series Limited Edition Spreader Bar

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$93.94 Ex Tax: $93.94

Adora Double Spreader Bars - Black

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$57.99 Ex Tax: $57.99

Ouch! Luxury Spreader Bar - Burgundy Free post

Ouch! Luxury Spreader Bar - Burgundy

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$89.95 Ex Tax: $89.95

Sex & Mischief Enchanted Spreader Bar

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$32.95
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Edge Adjustable Spreader Bar

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$76.49
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Master Series Trapped Wrist & Ankle Stocks

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$182.95
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Master Series Dominion Bar

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$131.99
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Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar Free post

Sex & Mischief Lace Spreader Bar

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$64.69 Ex Tax: $64.69

Sex & Mischief Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs Free post

Sex & Mischief Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs

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$79.99 Ex Tax: $79.99

How do you use a spreader bar safely?

  • Agree on a safe word and limits before you start.
  • Fit cuffs so that one or two fingers slide underneath. Check hands and feet often for numbness, tingling or cold skin.
  • Never leave a restrained partner alone, and keep the cuffs where you can undo them quickly.
  • Never fasten anything tight around the neck.
  • Wipe the bar and cuffs with a damp cloth after use, and let leather or PU dry naturally.

Frequently asked questions

What is a spreader bar used for in sex?

It holds the legs or arms apart, which leaves your partner open and adds a feeling of restraint.

What length spreader bar should I get?

About 50 to 60 cm works for most people. Kim found the 55 cm Adora bar a great length.

Can beginners use a spreader bar?

Yes. Choose padded, adjustable cuffs, start with short sessions and check in with each other often.

New to bondage?

If you're brand new to bondage, simple cuffs are an easier first step. Browse our wrist and ankle restraints to start, or explore our full bondage range.