BDSM & Sexual Restraints

Sex restraints hold part of the body still, so one partner can give up control and the other can take it. This range covers wrist and ankle cuffs, thigh and doggy style straps, spreader bars, collars and full body harnesses, from beginner friendly velcro cuffs to heavy duty leather.

Shop by type: Sexy Handcuffs | Fluffy Handcuffs | Bed Restraints | Spreader Bars

What types of BDSM restraints are there?

Wrist and ankle cuffs

Padded cuffs with a buckle or velcro closure, usually with a D-ring. Clip them together or to a tether. They are the most versatile restraint you can own.

Thigh, wrist and doggy style straps

Wrist to thigh cuffs keep hands at your sides, which stays comfortable for longer than hands behind the back. Doggy style straps help hold a position.

Spreader bars

A spreader bar holds ankles or wrists apart, with cuffs at each end. Many adjust in length, and we stock both fixed and adjustable styles.

Collars and neck to wrist restraints

Combine leather collars with wrist cuffs for a look of total surrender. Keep anything around the neck loose.

Harnesses, armbinders and body restraints

For experienced players who want more of the body held still. Take your time fitting them and check in often.

Prefer something simpler? A pair of handcuffs or an under-mattress bed restraint kit is an easy place to start.

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Thigh & Wrist Locker Bondage Restraint

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Adora Bondage Suspenders with Bow + Handcuffs

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Adora Leather Neck Wrist Cuff Restraint

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Adora Under Mattress Bed Restraint - Black

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Adora Under Mattress Bed Restraint - Pink

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Adora Leg Spreader Leather Bondage Restraint

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Adora Ankle and Wrist Bar Spreader Bondage Restraint - Black

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Adora Anal Hook + Harness Set

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Adora Pink Fluffy Handcuffs

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Adora Doggy Style Strap

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Adora Ankle and Wrist Bar Spreader Bondage Restraint - Red

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Adora Armbinder Bondage Restraint

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Adora Neck Wrist Cuff Restraint with Ball Gag

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Adora Erotica Faux Leather Handcuffs - Black

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PipeDream Fetish Fantasy Cuff And Tether Set

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Adora Neck Master Hand Cuffs Neck Restraint

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Adora Ribbon Bondage Restraint Straps x 7

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Adora Neck Wrist Spreader Bar

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Pretty Tied Up Wrist Ankle Restraint - Black

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Fetish Fantasy Series Heavy Duty Position Master

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Fetish Fantasy Series Metal Leg Cuffs

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Adora Bondage BDSM Bench

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PipeDream Fetish Fantasy Spread Em Bar And Cuff Set

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Scandal Bondage Bar

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Japanese Style Bondage Cotton Cuffs - Red

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Ouch! Beginner's Furry Handcuffs - Black

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PipeDream Fetish Fantasy Fantasy Web Bondage Kit

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Adora Fantasy Harness

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How do you choose your first restraints?

Restraints are one of the most popular sex toys for couples, and you don't need to be into BDSM to enjoy them. For a first set, choose soft, padded cuffs with a velcro or quick-release closure, so they are easy to get out of. Add one of our blindfolds and masks to heighten every touch. Leather, faux leather, neoprene, nylon and cotton all work, so pick what feels good on your skin. For bigger scenes later, browse our spanking benches, which have built-in tie points. New to all this? Read our beginner's guide to bondage and BDSM.

How do you use restraints safely?

Talk first. Agree on limits, a safe word and a hand signal for when speaking is hard.
Check fit: two fingers should slide under any cuff or strap.
Keep safety scissors and any keys within reach.
Never leave a restrained partner alone.
Watch for tingling, numbness, cold or pale skin, and release straight away if you see it.
Change positions now and then, and finish with some aftercare.

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Restraints FAQ

What's the difference between handcuffs and restraints?

Handcuffs are one style of restraint, for wrists only. Restraints also cover ankle and thigh cuffs, straps, spreader bars and harnesses.

Velcro or buckle cuffs?

Velcro is quicker to put on and take off, which is great for beginners. Buckles hold more firmly and let you set an exact fit.

How do I clean restraints?

Wipe them with warm soapy water or a toy cleaner, then let them air dry fully before you store them.