Richard Rider – Gay & Anal Toy Expert

Richard Rider

Richard Rider

Richard Rider has been reviewing sex toys since 2016, specialising in gay and anal toys. From plugs and prostate massagers to sounding gear and cock rings, Richard tests every product with honesty and detail, sharing what actually feels good (and what doesn't) for real-world use.

As a gay man in a long-term relationship, he knows how important it is to keep things fresh and fun. His reviews cover everything from beginner-friendly anal training to advanced play, always emphasising safety, comfort, and pleasure. If you're looking for straightforward advice on gay male toys, Richard is your go-to.

Richard's Current Favourite Picks

These are the toys Richard keeps coming back to — reliable, fun, and perfect for anyone wanting to explore gay and anal play. Here's his personal take on why each one stands out.

Pipedream Elite Electro-Stim Prostate Vibe

Pipedream Elite Electro-Stim Prostate Vibe

This electro-stim vibe is one of my favourites for prostate play — the gentle pulses add a whole new dimension to P-spot stimulation. It's safe, powerful, and perfect for experienced users wanting to experiment with e-stim.

Master Series Ass-Pand Large Inflatable Silicone Plug

Master Series Ass-Pand Large Inflatable Silicone Plug

Inflatable plugs are great for progressive training — this one is comfortable, flexible, and lets you control the stretch. Ideal for intermediate to advanced anal play when you're ready to push limits safely.

B-Vibe Anal Training and Education Set

B-Vibe Anal Training and Education Set

Perfect starter kit for anal training — the graduated sizes and plug design make it easy to build comfort and confidence. I recommend this for anyone new to anal play or wanting a structured approach.

Big Balls Anal Beads Large

Big Balls Anal Beads Large

These large beads are great for deeper anal stimulation — the size and weight give a full feeling, and pulling them out during orgasm is intense. Perfect for experienced users wanting more challenge.

Cleanstream Relax Lubricant

Cleanstream Relax Lubricant

This lube is a staple for anal play — thick, long-lasting, and gentle on sensitive areas. It makes insertion smoother and more comfortable, especially for larger toys or extended sessions.

Seven Creations Up Shot

Seven Creations Up Shot

A great anal plug with a suction cup base — perfect for hands-free play or harness use. The shape targets the prostate nicely, and it's comfortable for longer wear.

Mr. Play Anal Douche

Mr. Play Anal Douche

Essential for safe anal play — easy to use and effective for cleaning. I always recommend this before any anal session to feel fresh and comfortable.

Levelz Round Anal Balls XL 50mm

Levelz Round Anal Balls XL 50mm

These large anal balls are great for experienced users wanting a fuller feeling. The weight and size provide intense stimulation, and they're perfect for training or pleasure.

Lovetoy Flawless Clear Anal Plug

Lovetoy Flawless Clear Anal Plug

Clear and comfortable — this plug is great for beginners or anyone wanting something discreet. The shape sits nicely against the prostate, and it's easy to wear for longer periods.

Wall Mounted Dildo

Wall Mounted Dildo

Perfect for hands-free anal play — stick it to the wall or shower and enjoy the freedom. The size is manageable, and it's great for experimenting with positions.

Popular Articles by Richard

Beginner's Guide to Gay Sex Toys

Beginner's Guide to Gay Sex Toys

A complete guide for beginners exploring gay sex toys safely and enjoyably.

Monster Dildo Pros & Cons

Monster Dildo Pros & Cons

Everything you need to know about large dildos — pros, cons, and safety tips.

Large Dildo Materials Guide

Large Dildo Materials Guide

A guide to choosing the right material for large dildos — safety, feel, and durability.

Train for Big Dildo Beginners

Train for Big Dildo Beginners

Step-by-step guide to safely training for larger dildos.

Huge Dildo Safety Tips

Huge Dildo Safety Tips

Essential safety tips for using huge dildos comfortably and responsibly.

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