Aussie Sex Toys Survey: 500+ Shockers

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Aussie Sex Toys Survey: 500+ Shockers – Data on Top Sex Toys Preferences from Australians

Posted on October 4, 2025 | By Erica Cuff

Hello, cheeky adventurers! Ever wondered what gets Aussies buzzing in the bedroom? We surveyed over 500 of you—real folks from Sydney to Perth, solo stunners to loved-up couples—and the results are a wild ride. From 57% of orders coming from women and 43% from men (mirroring our 24-month sales stats), to a surprising 5% long-distance lovebirds craving app-controlled magic, this is the unfiltered scoop on what you want, love, and can't get enough of. Spoiler: Squirting dildos and fake cum lube are exploding for that extra-realistic splash, extra-large anal toys are stretching boundaries (pun intended), and sex machines are the new must-have for hands-free ecstasy. Drawing from our sales surge and broader trends, we're spilling the tea on preferences that’ll spice up your solo sessions or shared romps. Ready to get shocked? Let's dive in!

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Who We Surveyed: The Aussie Toy Crowd

Our 500+ respondents hail from every corner of the land—Sydney's city slickers (28%), Melbourne's artsy types (22%), Brisbane's beach bums (18%), and more from Perth, Adelaide, and regional gems like Tassie and the NT. Ages skew 25-44 (65%), with 18-24 at 20% and 45+ at 15%—prime time for exploration, per broader wellness stats showing millennials and Gen Z leading the charge. Women make up 57% (hello, vibrator queens!), men 43% (rising stars in prostate play), and 5% non-binary or other. Play styles? 65% solo (self-love reigns!), 25% couples (spice it up together), and 5% long-distance (tech to the rescue), with 5% mixing it all.

Quote from Alex, 32, Melbourne (Solo Player): "As a busy mum, solo play is my 15-minute escape—vibrators are non-negotiable for that quick, guilt-free glow-up."

Quote from Sam, 28, Sydney (Couples Enthusiast): "We've been together 5 years—strap-ons and remote vibes keep the spark alive without the routine."

Shocker #1: Tech Rules Solo Play (65% Preference)

Solo Aussies crave control and discretion—62% favour app-controlled toys for customizable thrills, with vibrators topping the list at 45% of preferences. Egg vibes and clitoral stimulators shine for quickies, while 18% swear by dildos for that hands-free fantasy. Long-distance solo? 5% use machines for marathon sessions, up 30% from last year. Our sales echo this: Remote eggs like the Adora Egg Vibrator are flying off shelves for their whisper-quiet power.

Visualise the solo faves:

Quote from Tayla, 26, Brisbane (Solo Explorer): "The app on my egg vibe lets me sync to music—solo sessions feel like a personal concert, no strings attached."

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Shocker #2: Couples Crave Versatility (25% Preference)

Couples are all about shared sparks—71% prioritise versatile toys like strap-ons and vibrating cock rings for mutual fun, with 40% loving remote control for surprise play. Strap-ons lead at 30%, perfect for role reversal, while 20% opt for couples kits blending vibes and restraints. Long-distance couples (5% overall, but 80% of that group) lean into app-synced panties and machines to bridge the gap—sales up 25%!

Quote from Jamie & Riley, 35, Perth (Long-Distance Duo): "We're 1,000km apart, but the remote panties turn our video calls into fireworks—feels like they're right here."

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Shocker #3: Long-Distance Magic (5% But Mighty)

That 5% long-distance crew packs a punch—90% prefer app-controlled toys for real-time sync, with vibrating panties and machines leading (up 40% in sales). 35% use squirting dildos with fake cum lube for "virtual creampie" fantasies, adding realism to screen time. It's all about closing the miles with tech—echoing a broader shift where 20% of couples report toys saving their spark.

Quote from Lee, 31, Adelaide (Long-Distance Solo/Couples): "The sex machine with app control? It's like my partner's thrusts from afar—game-changer for those lonely nights."

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Shocker #4: Squirting & Realism Surge

Hold onto your hats—squirting dildos and fake cum lube sales have skyrocketed 50% over 24 months, with 28% of respondents craving that "extra realistic fun touch" for creampie fantasies or bukkake play. 65% pair them with strap-ons for immersive role-play, while 35% use solo for self-indulgent messiness. It's playful, empowering, and oh-so-satisfying—perfect for couples or solo explorers pushing boundaries.

Quote from Mia, 29, Sydney (Couples Kinkster): "The squirting dildo with cum lube? It's messy magic—feels like a fantasy come true, without the cleanup drama."

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Shocker #5: Extra-Large Anal Adventures

Anal play's going big—extra-large toys like mega plugs and beads claim 22% preference among anal enthusiasts, up 35% in the last year. 55% cite "stretch and fullness" as the draw for solo training, while 45% love it in couples for power dynamics. Safety first: 80% emphasise lube and gradual sizing, tying into wellness trends.

Quote from Pat, 34, Darwin (Solo Anal Fan): "Started small, now extra-large beads are my jam—the slow build to that full rush is addictive."

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Shocker #6: Spotlight on Featured Faves

From nipple stimulators to extenders, here's what our survey spotlights love:

Female Sex Toys

Male Sex Toys

Strap Ons

Dildos

Anal Toys

Lingerie

Key Takeaways: What This Means for Your Play

Our survey screams empowerment—Aussies want toys that fit their lives, from quick solo zaps to long-distance zings. With squirting dildos up 50% for that messy magic, extra-large anal toys stretching 35% of boundaries, and sex machines powering 20% of marathons, 2025 is about bold, body-positive bliss. 85% say toys boost confidence, and 70% report hotter relationships. Pro tip: Start slow with lube—see our guide to using personal lubricants.

Quote from Kai, 40, Hobart (Non-Binary Explorer): "Extra-large anal beads? The fullness is freeing—solo or with a partner, it's all about owning my pleasure."

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