Valentines Day Gifts For Her

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While flowers, fancy chocolates, and cute teddy bears are typical and predictable romantic go-to's, it's time to think outside the box this year. We have put together some unique Valentine's Day gifts for her, that are guaranteed to rock her world!

If you're still recovering from the Christmas spending spree, don't stress, we have included lots of cheap Valentine's Day gifts that start as low as $10.

These Valentine's Day gift ideas are designed with your special lady in mind, so if you are looking for something for your mother, then you are in the wrong place!


A very popular Valentine’s Day gift is sexy lingerie. Buy it for yourself to surprise him, or buy it as a gift for your the special woman in your life.

When she wears it, she feels sexy – even if no-one else can see her sexy lacy lingerie, it’s in the back of her mind, and yours, while she is wearing it.

What makes lingerie so sexy is often what it is covering and suggesting, not what is revealing.

Sexy Lingerie

There are so many styles and colours to choose from to suit all body shapes and sizes.

Some lingerie, such as bodysuits or camisoles can be worn as a top, or as underwear, to be revealed after dessert.

So, what’s the difference between a cami and a teddy? Here’s a quick go-to guide for the most popular lingerie gifts:



Think singlet. It’s worn on the torso and has straps. Usually loose-fitting, with decorative lace which may show I the cleavage. Also known as a cami for short.



A teddy is like a one-piece swimming costume, except it is sheer (see-through), made from lace, or satin. They can be worn under other clothes, replacing bra and knickers. 




A bra and panty set will have a matching top and bottom piece. They will usually have the same lace and embroidery. There are many styles and shapes when it comes to both bras and panties, so your options here will be endless. They can also be worn separately.

Lingerie Set


Suspenders and Stockings

When most people say stockings, they are actually referring to pantihose. For Valentine’s Day, you will most likely be after a set of stockings.

What’s the difference? Pantihose go from the toes all the way to the waist with built-in crotch area. Stockings finish at the thigh, usually with a strip of lace. Suspenders are an elastic waistband with adjustable straps that come down the front and back of each leg to attach to the stockings to help keep them up, and they are very sexy!


 Lingerie doesn’t have to be tight and body-hugging. Many pieces, including plus size lingerie sets, can be loose and flowing. Some are sheer (see-through), while other designs are satin and more suggestive. Lace, pearls, fishnet, PVC, spandex – the options are endless.

Perhaps you want to be more adventurous and suggestive with your partner for Valentine’s Day. She could be hiding an open cup camisole:

Open Cup Lingerie

Or some crotchless panties:

Crothless Panties



Whether you’re a novice or a pro a massage if a great way to get her in the mood. A fireplace, roses, chocolates, hot bath, and a massage in on every woman bucket list for Valentines Day. She'll feel like a queen!

Massage Oils

Another popular ladies gift are massage oils. There is a wide range of massage oils available, with different flavours and scents, for sensitive skin, for easy, non-greasy cleanup, and some that double up as lube.


JO All-in-one Massage Gift Set

Set the stage for sensual play with a quality massage oil. Use the tea light candle to add an inviting flare of romance.

Massagers and Magic Wands

There are also some great vibrating massagers and magic wands that are sure to relax both you and your partner, and see you up for the best valentine's day.

Start with some candles and rose petals. Add some scented massage oil and a hand massage to relax. Then move onto a vibrating massage, gentle to start with. And work slowly into the amorous zones and towards some hot steamy Valentines memories.

Rianne S Essentials Bella Mini Body Wand French Rose

Body Paint

You can write sweet words of love on your partner that are wiped away with kisses. This is what passion tastes like!

There is a collection of edible body paint with a pleasant texture and delicious flavours. Your partner can be your cover you in inspirational words of love.

Bijoux Indiscrets Poeme Edible Body Paint Dark Chocolate


Vibrating Panties

Ok, so now we get into the more adventurous territory. Vibrating panties have become a huge hit with couples over the last few years.

Vibrating Knickers

They add a whole new meaning to having fun on a date night. They are a type of wearable vibrator, designed to be worn by the woman.

Most models come with a remote control that allows the controller (either you or your partner) to turn on the vibrating device.

Image sitting at a fancy restaurant and the waiter comes over to take your order. Next minute your partner switches on the vibrating panties under the table and gives you the time of your life at the most inappropriate time.

These devices are lots of fun and can be used at the movies, doing shopping, dinner with friends.

If you would like to know more, then check out our Best Vibrating Panties Guide.


Couples Vibrators

A couples vibrator is a type of vibrator that can be used and enjoyed by two people, and cover a broad range of vibrators including cock rings, vibrating penis sleeves, and finger vibes.

However, the traditional couples vibrator is a 'C Shaped' vibrator that is designed to be worn by the woman and is used during sex.

One end of the 'C' shape stimulates both the ladies G-Spot and the man's penis, and the other end of the 'C' stimulates the ladies clitoris.

If you are yet to experience one of these magnificent inventions, then you are missing out!

Couples Vibrator Diagram

One of the most popular models this year is the We-Vibe Chorus, which has a unique remote control that the lady holds and increase the intensity of the vibrations by squeezing the soft remote.

We-Vibe Chorus


Light Bondage Kits

These gift kits are designed for the ladies that like to bring out their naughty side in the bedroom.

Bondage Kit

A bondage kit packages up all the most popular pieces of tie-ups, restraints and whips into a nice neat matching package.

These kits range from basic slap and tickle kits, all the way up to strong BDSM restraint kits. If you would like more information on bondage, check out this bondage guide.

Sex Games

Another great gift idea for that special someone in your life are sex games. We have come a long way from 'spin the bottle' and 'truth or dare'.

These games include card games, roll the dice games, and board games.

Weekend in bed sex game

Some relationship experts say scheduling sex can help maintain a healthy, long-term relationship (1).

These games are a nice way to mix things up every once in a while. Trying new things helps you explore uncharted territory in your relationship and helps you figure out what you and your loved one like (and don’t).

Yoni Eggs

Yoni eggs are becoming a big hit with many women. They are also widely known as jade eggs or love eggs and are a polished, egg-shaped type of kegel ball.

They are made from semi-precious stones such as crystals, that are inserted into the vagina to improve pelvic strength. 

Rose Quartz Crystal Yoni Eggs

Yoni Eggs claim to bring about calm and increase spiritual enlightenment and spiritual awareness, as well as:

- Balance emotions.
- Massage reflexology points in the vaginal wall.
- Increase vaginal lubrication.
- Strengthens pelvic floor muscles and tightens and tone vaginal walls.
- Reduce sagging of the uterus, rectum and bladder.
- Reduce PMS symptoms such as cramping and abdominal pain during the menstruation.

The philosophy of modern crystal healing is based on traditional concepts borrowed from Asian cultures, most notably the Chinese concept of life-energy (chi or qi) and the Hindu or Buddhist concept of chakras, which are vortices of this life-energy, said to connect the physical and supernatural elements of the body. (6)

Valentines Day For Single Ladies

Valentine’s Day is not just a couple's thing. We can all enjoy the fun that this day brings. There is no reason being unattached should mean missing out on the Valentine’s Day fun!

Here are some ideas for single women:

Sleep Masks

If your idea of the perfect night in is relaxing at home with a night cap, and then slipping into bed and getting a good night's rest, then a soft satin sleep mask might be what you are looking for.

Lightweight, high-quality sleep masks block both direct and ambient light, which allows your eyes to relax.

A luxury eye mask can create the ideal conditions for sleeping no matter where you are.

Great for travelling, unusual sleep schedules, and anyone who has trouble falling asleep.

Sleep Masks


If you are looking for a lot more excitement than having a good sleep, then a vibrator might just be what you are looking for.

Rabbit Vibrators

Rather than making the choice between a dildo or a clitoral toy, the rabbit vibrator does both simultaneously.

It acts as an external clitoral vibe while giving you amazing internal G-spot stimulation.

B Yours Beginners Rabbit Vibrator

Clitoral Vibrators

A study from The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy reported that 37% of women need some clit stimulation to achieve orgasm (2).

Statistics aside, we know that the clitoris is an organ with 8,000 nerve endings responsible for sexual pleasure (3).

Clitoral stimulation is the key for most women reaching orgasm. The word “clitoris” means “key” in Greek (4).

A clitoral vibrator is specifically designed to stimulate the clit either with vibrations, sucking, or using air pulsating technology.

Satisfyer Pro

For more information check out our mastering the clitoris guide.

Finger Vibrators

A finger vibrator is a little motorized vibe that slips directly on to one of your fingers. They are very discreet, affordable and make touching yourself during sex very easy.

Laurie Mintz, PhD, a therapist, professor of human sexuality at the University of Florida, author of Becoming Cliterate says:

It extends your finger and gives it the vibration, so the vibrator becomes an extension of your body.


Pretty Love Stanford

It can be a difficult job figuring out which vibe to choose when there are so many to choose from. Our best vibrators guide might help you narrow down your perfect vibrator.

Safe Sex

No matter what turns you and your partner on for a great Valentines Day date, make sure you play it safe.

With a full range of condoms, in all sizes, flavours, and colours, and lubes to suit all occasions, The Hot Spot caters for vegans, organic, and sensitive skins.

If you need something to help make your Valentine’s Day something special, then you will find it here at The Hot Spot, your Australian online adult sex toy specialist for Valentine’s Day.


History of Valentines Day

Valentine's day was all started by Saint Valentine. While no-one is sure who this Valentine character actually was, there are many stories from ancient Rome and Christians about Valentine and his charming, love-filled heroics.

The one thing they all have one is romance. It is suggested that February 14 commemorated the death or burial of Valentine on AD 270. Others suggest the date was picked to “Christianize” the pagan celebration of Lupercalia, a fertility ritual held around the same time.

The oldest known Valentine greeting still exists today in the British Library. It is a poem written in 1415 by Charles, Duke of Orleans, to his wife Catherine of Valois.

Today Valentines Day is celebrated by many countries around the world. Millions of cards and messages are exchanged, along with gifts, second only to Christmas. It is estimated that around 85% of these are purchased by women. (5)


Erica Cuff

Author: Erica Cuff

Erica Cuff has been involved in the sex toy industry since 2000. Working behind the motto “Sex Toys should be fun”, Erica provides useful tips & advice from years of hands on experience and research with adult products. 

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